Stages of Silicon Valley real estate sticker shockIt’s no surprise that housing prices in and around Silicon Valley are extremely high. So when moving to or purchasing a home in the area, know that getting over Silicon Valley real estate sticker shock happens in stages.

The 5 Stages of Housing Sticker Shock

First there is disbelief or denial.  “It cannot be that bad – people are exaggerating.”  That’s followed quickly by “I thought it was bad where I used to live!”

Then there may be outrage (anger is too mild a word): “Why would anyone pay that to live there?”

Next, a little bargaining: “What’s the work around? Are there any bank owned homes?  How about something older – I don’t mind a 15 year old house…” (To us, that’s a young house, by the way.) “What about buying a lot and building?”  Or the commute negotiation “I thought I had to be within 15 minutes, but I could go 30.”  A typical commute might be 30 minutes in the morning, but 45 in the evening.  Many people have worse than typical, though, as they want a bigger, nicer home, better schools, quieter location, etc.

Depression soon follows suit. This may be accompanied by “We just cannot do it” or “We are not willing to do that” (until they see that rents are $4000 for a smallish house in an only OK area and $6000 per month for a decent sized home in a good area.)

Acceptance comes at last. Either you can and will buy locally, or you won’t. For some, coming to terms with our local market costs means they’re ready to go all in, bite the bullet, and buy locally. That may mean spending more or getting less than what you would like. It may lead others to move out of the immediate area and embrace an hour-long commute, or to take the Apple or Google bus to work, if applicable. Or perhaps they choose to rent indefinitely (although this can also appear in the other stages).

Alternatively, it could lead some people to move to Seattle, Orange County or somewhere a little less overwhelming in terms of housing costs where they can buy the home they want.

Burning Money While Housing Prices RiseMoving Through the Stages – Acceptance of Housing Prices

Progressing through the stages is often not a straight line.

Sometimes people think they are at “acceptance” as they write offers which are habitually 5-15% too low.  In reality, they are actually still somewhere between the “denial” and “bargaining” phases, either refusing to believe the market data or hoping for a good deal amidst our raging seller’s market. That “good deal” doesn’t usually happen. Writing multiple unsuccessful offers frequently leads to depression, and sometimes even blaming their agent for their offers not going through (outrage), even when it’s clear at closing that their offer price or terms were the issue, and they were recieving good guidance from their agent that was disregarded (denial).

So how fast can you expect to get to the acceptance stage and write a realistic purchase offer? Honestly, everyone will go at a different pace, but the sooner the better. For people who could have bought 12 months ago but are still shopping now, that wait has cost them about +10% of their home price in many cases, possibly more. For those who have been looking 3 years, it’s more than double that. At that point, it’s like setting a match to your entire down payment.

If you want to be a successful home buyer in this crazy Silicon Valley real estate market, you will need to get onboard quickly, because the longer you take to get to acceptance, the more expensive your final home will cost when the market is appreciating, as it has been for about 3 years now.  Time is money and nowhere is that more true than in the San Jose, Silicon Valley, or South Bay real estate market.

 

 

Looking for more Silicon Valley real estate resources?  Here are a few of my other sites, blogs, and market stats tooks:

popehandy.rereport.com – real estate statics for San Mateo County, Santa Clara County, and Santa Cruz County

popehandy.com – Silicon Valley real estate, Los Gatos real estate, info on many areas of the realty market in Santa Clara and San Mateo counties

SanJoseRealEstateLosGatosHomes.com – Santa Clara County real estate, special focus on San Jose areas of Almaden & Cambrian and also Los Gatos with info on the real estate market, neighborhoods, and more

LiveInLosGatosBlog – Los Gatos real estate, neighborhoods, events, businesses, parks. Many photos and neighborhood or subdivision profiles.

 

 

 

 

 

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